November 2011 (vent)

I originally was going to write this with the post below, but I wrote them separately.

Why is it that some people think that they need to share their every opinion? Even if it isn't nice?

I have tons of friends. And I know a ton of people. And I share on the blog and the CaringBridge to share with all the family and friends that we have all over the world.
I have several of my best friends or people who I am close with. And I trust them to be able to share anything with me.
And I know if they were to tell me something, that it would be because they care and have concern for me.

But when people are down right hurtful, I don't like that.

It's a shame that some people just have no common sense.

All I have to say is read my post below. You can see that my family has had a difficult year.

We live in a small home, but it is mine, it is paid for. Yes, we have a lot of stuff, combining 3 people's things into a small living space.
We are a happy family despite all we have been through. Both my cars are paid for, everything I own is mine and I have purchased. I don't have credit cards, I have worked and paid for everything that is in our home!
I was a single mother for 7 years. And at times was working 3 jobs...yes round the clock trying to make enough to live on for my daughter and me.

Why do people feel they need to say hurtful things????

I had that encounter last spring with that person who said, Alexis isn't really that sick.
HA, what do you know? Does that person think this sounded like "FUN" to go thru?
That still spites me. And angers me.
I know it shouldn't and I know she clearly doesn't have a heart. Does it surprise you that she has children.
You'd think someone with a child would understand.

On facebook, I read people posting things like, my poor baby has a cold or the flu.
Normal stuff.

Well when you have a "Chronically" Ill child. The normal stuff gets bigger. And worse.
Nothing is normal about chronically ill children. And it isn't fun to see them suffering. Not one bit!

Why do people feel that they need to say whatever they are thinking????
Not helpful, just hurtful. For future, if you just want to be mean and think it is funny, don't waste your time with me.
Before "judging" Me, and my family or living space, why don't you take a look at yourself.
God is my judge. He is the only one who is perfect, and can judge me.
Just had to vent a little!